This 5-Second Instructor Hack Makes Students Actually Listen
Letโs talk about PCP...
No, not the drug that was popular in the 80โs.
Iโm talking about the PraiseโCorrectโPraise method.
Itโs one of the simplest, most effective communication strategies you can teach your instructors, whether theyโre working with white belts or black beltsโฆ or just struggling not to sound like a drill sergeant with a caffeine addiction.
Hereโs the deal:
Correcting students is a big part of our job.
But constantly pointing out what theyโre doing wrong, without acknowledging what theyโre doing right, doesnโt build better martial artists.
It builds discouraged ones.
As Melody Johnson says, you need to have brain bank deposits (positive inputs) to help people achieve their potential.
So instead of barking:
โKeep your hands up!!โ
for the 17th time this week (to no effect)...
Try this:
โHey, I really like how youโre keeping your knees bent in your fighting stance (โ
Praise)...
This time, keep your hands up to protect yourself (โ ๏ธ Correct)...
Thatโs going to make you look super sharp in sparring (โ
Praise).โ
It takes 5 seconds.
It builds confidence.
It opens the student up to actually receive the correction.
Now, I get it, some of you are old-school hard asses.
You came up in a school where praise was reserved for paying your tuition on time or getting beat downs at belt testing.
But weโre not training Navy SEALs here.
Weโre building confident kids (and adults) who want to keep coming back. And many of them, especially beginners, just need to feel like theyโre not totally screwing it all up.
You donโt have to lay it on thick.
You donโt have to lie.
Just find something real to compliment:
โYouโve been working hard tonight.โ
โYouโre staying focused.โ
โThat effort was awesome.โ
Then drop the correction, then finish with one last lift.
Itโs clean. Itโs human. And it makes you sound like you actually care.
(Because you do, right? โฆright?)
Hereโs your homework:
Run a short 5-minute drill with your team this week.
Have instructors partner up and practice PCP-style corrections.
Give a correction the old way... then deliver it again, PCP-style.
Theyโll feel the difference.
And if they can master this, your school wonโt just have better technique on the matsโฆ
Youโll have instructors who actually connect with students, getting them one step closer to black belt every class.
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